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A.K.A.: "Mistress Lauren M"
 
Classification: Homicide?
Characteristics: Dominatrix - Bondage session - Dismemberment - The body was never found
Number of victims: 1 ?
Date of murder: July 3, 2000
Date of birth: 1949
Victim profile: Michael Lord, 53
Method of murder: Suffered a fatal heart attack while strapped to a replica of a medieval torture device
Location: Boston, Massachusetts, USA
Status: Acquitted of manslaughter and dismemberment on January 30, 2006
 
 

 
 

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Barbara Asher is a 56-year-old dominatrix from Boston, Massachusetts. Going by the pseudonym Mistress Lauren M, Asher was charged but aquitted of manslaughter and dismemberment in Michael Lord's death.

Lord, 53, a retired telephone company worker from North Hampton, N.H., died in 2000 while strapped to a replica of a medieval torture device in Asher's condominium, according to police. His body was never found.

Police said Asher confessed she and her boyfriend chopped up Lord's body in the bathtub and dumped it behind a Maine restaurant.


Dominatrix case

In 2000, a self-described dominatrix allegedly confessed to police that while she was providing services for a 54-year old NH man, her client had a massive heart attack and died. To avoid harming her sadomasochistic business, or alert the IRS, instead of calling police about the dead man, she and her boyfriend dismembered the body in a Quincy apartment, bagged the parts, and tossed them into a dumpster in Maine.

The story made headlines again in 2001. At that time, it was not expected that Barbara Asher would be charged for the incident, due to a lack of physical evidence. The body was never recovered, and there wasn't any evidence such as DNA or proof of disposal of a body. Asher's confession was the only evidence in the case.

In 2002, she was arraigned for involuntary manslaughter and improper disposal of a body, and her boyfriend was arraigned for only the latter charge. On the date of the alleged crime, July 3, 2000, the victim was reported to have been shackled to a rack, with a collar around his neck, and a hood over his face. He then had a fatal heart attack. She supposedly waited 15 minutes, and then called her boyfriend. It was alleged that the boyfriend cut the body up in a bathtub with a double-bladed hacksaw, with Asher assisting by placing the parts into eight gray garbage bags. On July 4, the bags were tossed into the dumpster of a Chinese food restaurant in Augusta, Maine.

The Norfolk County District Attorney, Robert Nelson, was quoted in the November 30, 2002 Boston Globe about the case: "The involuntary manslaughter charge is based on the defendant's failure to act while Mr. — was struggling on the rack as she 'heard his last breath' — those are her words to the police." And, "She had a duty to act to prevent the death."

Phone records did indicate the victim had previous contact with Asher, but no physical evidence was ever discovered in the case. A landfill in Maine was searched, but the body was never found. The DA still decided to prosecute Asher.

On January 30, 2006, Asher was acquitted of all charges. During the trial, several police officers testified that she had confessed to watching a man die of a heart attack without helping him. Asher's lawyer was quoted as saying "No body. No blood. No DNA. No evidence," and the jury agreed with her. The boyfriend never went to trial, as he had fled to Argentina, and was never extradited. With a threshold of "reasonable doubt" required to prove that a crime had even been committed, it was a very difficult case to prosecute in the first place. The family of the missing NH man was extremely disappointed in the verdict.

CelebrateBoston.com


Dominatrix acquitted of manslaughter

By Raja Mishra - The Boston Globe

January 31, 2006

Professional dominatrix Barbara Asher was acquitted yesterday of involuntary manslaughter in the death of a New Hampshire man who prosecutors said suffered a fatal heart attack while strapped to a bondage rack in her Quincy condominium.

Prosecutors had argued that Asher, 56, did nothing to help Michael Lord, 53, of North Hampton as he died during the July 2000 session, out of fear that calling authorities would have jeopardized her dominatrix business. The prosecutors said she and a boyfriend chopped up Lord's 275-pound body and dumped the parts in a trash bin behind a Chinese restaurant in Augusta, Maine.

Lord's corpse was never found, which produced a rare legal situation: Prosecutors were forced to try Asher for manslaughter without irrefutable proof that a man had died, his body.

''No body. No blood. No DNA. No evidence," Asher's lawyer Stephanie Page said in her closing argument Friday.

The Norfolk Superior Court jury deliberated for eight hours over two days before finding Asher not guilty of involuntary manslaughter and dismemberment.

Page said in an interview yesterday that the lengthy investigation and trial had been an ordeal for Asher. ''She is still in shock. This has been a terrible 5 1/2 years for her," Page said.

Asher's former boyfriend, Miguel S. Ferrer, faced charges as an accessory but fled the country several years ago, returning to his native Argentina, prosecutors said.

Lord's secret life of bondage stunned his family when the case became public in July 2000. Family members expressed disappointment with the verdict yesterday.

''She should have been guilty," said Lord's mother, Audrey H. Lord, 81, reached by phone at her home in Jonesboro, Texas. ''I think that everyone is kind of liberal and tree-huggers up there in Massachusetts. You don't get justice there."

The Norfolk district attorney's office, which prosecuted the case, had won a conviction in a similar case, a 2002 murder trial in which no body was found, the first such case in state history. Yesterday, officials defended their decision to prosecute Asher.

''We knew the legal obstacles were even more daunting and very different from our first trial without a body, but that didn't mean these gruesome allegations should go unchallenged," read a statement released by the office. ''Every family needs to know that if they lose a loved one, no alleged attempt to cover up that crime and destroy evidence is going to stop us from trying to bring a case to justice as the law allows."

The prosecution's case -- and the narrative about the fatal bondage session presented in court -- rested on an alleged confession by Asher.

Several police investigators testified that Asher had admitted to watching Lord die on the bondage rack without calling for medical help and then dismembering his body the next day with Ferrer's help. But the confession was not recorded, and investigators could not produce any notes documenting the confession. Investigators said Asher had asked that tape recorders be shut off before she admitted to the crime.

Prosecutor Robert Nelson, in his closing argument Friday, donned a leather mask and simulated Lord's alleged flailing death, telling jurors, ''She did nothing, nothing for five minutes."

Then, he quietly hung his head forward, apparently in an attempt to simulate Lord's death, drawing a rebuke from Superior Court Judge Charles Grabau.

Without physical evidence to back up Asher's alleged confession, the prosecution faced an uphill task, said one veteran criminal defense attorney.

''They didn't have any physical evidence to corroborate that what the prosecution said happened actually happened," said attorney Robert A. George of Boston. ''How can the jury determine that the death occurred that way when there's not any physical evidence? That's reasonable doubt."

Page said the alleged confession had been fabricated by police investigators.

''There was a lack of a body because [Lord] was never there" at Asher's condominium, she said.

Lord's son, Timothy, said he was convinced of Asher's guilt but questioned whether police and prosecutors had done enough to establish their case.

''The police got a confession from her and were OK with it and didn't want to follow up with the story," he said. ''Here's a woman who confesses to this horrible crime -- what she did to my father, who we love very much."


Jury clears dominatrix of N. Hampton man’s death

By Associated Press

January 31, 2006   

DEDHAM, Mass. - A dominatrix was acquitted of manslaughter Monday in the death of a North Hampton, N.H., man who prosecutors say suffered a fatal heart attack while strapped to a replica of a medieval torture device.

The jury in Norfolk Superior Court deliberated for eight hours over two days before finding Barbara Asher, 56, not guilty of involuntary manslaughter and dismemberment.

During his closing argument, prosecutor Robert Nelson re-enacted the bondage session that allegedly killed Michael Lord, 53, in July 2000.

Donning a leather mask and speaking to the jury through the zippered mouth, he said Lord flailed about and died while strapped to the rack in a makeshift "dungeon" in Asher’s Quincy condominium. Nelson said Asher did nothing to help him for fear authorities would find out about her business.

"She did nothing, nothing for five minutes," Nelson said, his voice muffled through the mask.

Then she summoned her boyfriend, who chopped up the body of the 275-pound retired telephone company worker before they dumped it behind a restaurant in Augusta, Maine, Nelson said. Police searched an Augusta landfill, but his remains have never been found.

Prosecutors said Asher confessed to police, but the alleged confession was not taped, and police investigators who testified said they did not save their notes from the interrogation.

Asher’s lawyer, Stephanie Page, said there was also no DNA evidence recovered from the bathtub, and without a body there was no real evidence that Lord was even dead.

"No body. No blood. No DNA. No evidence," Page said in her closing argument.

Lord’s sons were disappointed with the verdict.

"Here’s a woman who confesses to this horrible crime - what she did to my father, who we love very much," said Timothy Lord.

But he also questioned whether police thoroughly investigated his father’s disappearance.

"The police got a confession from her, and were OK with it, and didn’t want to follow up with the story," he said.

Another son, Nathan Lord, said Asher once called Michael Lord’s mother in Texas and apologized for her role in his death, but that evidence was never presented at the trial.

"It’s disappointing," he said. "Feels like a lot of information wasn’t brought out in court."

The Norfolk County District Attorney’s Office said in a statement it was aware it faced "daunting" legal obstacles in bringing the case, "but that didn’t mean these gruesome allegations should go unchallenged."

"Every family needs to know that if they lose a loved one, no alleged attempt to cover up that crime and destroy evidence is going to stop us from trying to bring a case to justice as the law allows," the statement said.

Asher said after the verdict that the more than five years since her alleged confession had been "an emotionally draining experience." Asked by a reporter if she continues working as a dominatrix, she declined to comment.

Several police investigators testified about Asher’s alleged confession, saying she repeatedly denied any involvement in Lord’s death, then asked the officers to turn off the tape recorder and confessed.

Detective Mark Sambataro of Salem, N.H. denied Page’s claim that the investigators developed a theory about the case, then bullied Asher into admitting to a crime she didn’t commit.

But it was Nelson’s theatrical closing that provided the most dramatic moments of the trial.

The prosecutor pointed and hollered at Asher. He dumped a box full of hoods, collars, and paddles onto a table, and proclaimed that Asher was trying to protect her business.

"That’s why she didn’t call the police," he said.

With both hands, he reached back and clutched the top of a blackboard to simulate Lord being strapped to the rack.

He paused as his head hung forward as if to simulate Lord’s alleged death.

Page objected, and Norfolk Superior Court Judge Charles Grabau agreed.

"That’s enough Mr. Nelson," the judge said. "Thank you for your demonstration."


Masked Closing in Dominatrix Trial

Los Angeles Times

January 28, 2006

DEDHAM, Mass. — A prosecutor put on a black leather mask and reenacted a bondage session Friday at a dominatrix's manslaughter trial, telling the jury the woman did nothing to help her client when he suffered a heart attack.

Prosecutor Robert Nelson also dumped a box of hoods, collars and paddles onto a table during his closing arguments, declaring that 56-year-old Barbara Asher was trying to protect her business and "that's why she didn't call the police."

The jury deliberated for about four hours Friday before being sent home until Monday morning.

Asher, who called herself Mistress Lauren M, is charged with manslaughter and dismemberment in Michael Lord's death. She has pleaded not guilty.

Lord, a 53-year-old retired telephone company worker from North Hampton, N.H., died in 2000 while strapped to a replica of a medieval torture device in Asher's Quincy condominium, according to police. His body was never found.

Police said Asher confessed that she and her boyfriend chopped up Lord's body in a bathtub and dumped it behind a restaurant in Maine. Her attorney says the confession was coerced by police.

In a reenactment for the jury, the prosecutor donned the mask, and with both hands, reached back and clutched the top of a blackboard to simulate how Lord was strapped.

"After a gasp, his head went forward and she did nothing, nothing for five minutes," Nelson said, his voice muffled as he spoke through the zippered mouth opening.

Lord's attorney objected, and Judge Charles Grabau agreed.

"That's enough, Mr. Nelson," the judge said. "Thank you for your demonstration."

Defense attorney Stephanie Page told the jury that prosecutors failed to produce any incriminating evidence. "No body. No blood. No DNA. No evidence."


Lawyer Dons Dominatrix Mask in Mass. Trial

ABC News

January 27, 2006

DEDHAM, Mass. - A prosecutor put on a black leather mask and re-enacted a bondage session Friday at a dominatrix's manslaughter trial, telling the jury the woman did nothing to help her client when he suffered a heart attack.

Prosecutor Robert Nelson also dumped a box of hoods, collars and paddles onto a table during his closing arguments, declaring that 56-year-old Barbara Asher was trying to protect her business and "that's why she didn't call the police."

The jury deliberated for about four hours on Friday before being sent home until Monday morning.

Asher, who called herself Mistress Lauren M, is charged with manslaughter and dismemberment in Michael Lord's death.

Lord, a 53-year-old retired telephone company worker from North Hampton, N.H., died in 2000 while strapped to a replica of a medieval torture device in Asher's Quincy condominium, according to police. His body was never found.

Police said Asher confessed that she and her boyfriend chopped up Lord's body in the bathtub and dumped it behind a restaurant in Maine.

In a re-enactment for the jury, the prosecutor donned the mask, and with both hands, reached back and clutched the top of a blackboard to simulate how Lord was strapped.

"After a gasp, his head went forward and she did nothing, nothing for five minutes," Nelson said, his voice muffled as he spoke through the zippered mouth opening.

Lord's attorney objected, and Judge Charles Grabau agreed.

"That's enough, Mr. Nelson," the judge said. "Thank you for your demonstration."

Defense attorney Stephania Page told the jury that prosecutors failed to produce any incriminating evidence. "No body. No blood. No DNA. No evidence," Page said.


Prosecutor: Dominatrix Waited Too Long To Call For Help

State Says Woman Dismembered, Disposed Of Body

January 18, 2006

DEDHAM, Mass. -- A prosecutor said Tuesday that a dominatrix waited too long to call for help as a client died of a heart attack during a bondage session, then dismembered and disposed of the body rather than report the death.

But the woman's lawyer said in her opening statement that the man never visited Barbara Asher's makeshift dungeon and that police made up the story and bullied Asher into confessing.

"No body, no blood, no DNA evidence," defense attorney Stephanie Page said. "Barbara Asher is here because of a theory."

Asher, who went by the name Mistress Lauren M, has pleaded not guilty to charges of manslaughter and dismemberment in the death of Michael Lord. The retired telephone company worker from North Hampton, N.H., died in July 2000 while strapped to a rack in Asher's Quincy condominium, according to police.

Prosecutor Robert Nelson said Asher was getting into her dominatrix outfit when she heard a commotion coming from the "dungeon" where Lord was waiting, naked, tied by his wrists to the rack, a replica of a medieval torture device.

She entered the room to find Lord in his death throes, Nelson said.

"His arms are flailing about," Nelson said. "There was a gasp, and his head went forward."

Asher waited five minutes before calling her boyfriend to come help, the prosecutor said. Miguel Ferrer, who is charged as an accomplice, arrived 10 minutes later.

"During that time, Mr. Lord continued to hang there, and she did nothing," Nelson said.

Asher and Ferrer took Lord down from the rack and tied to revive him, but by then it was too late, Nelson said. Ferrer suggested they call for help, but Asher refused because she was worried the police would find out about her operation, according to the prosecutor. So they put the body in the bathtub and left for the night, he said.

The next day, Nelson said, Ferrer dismembered the body of the 280-pound Lord with a hacksaw and they divided his remains into eight trash bags. The day after that, they drove to Augusta, Maine, where they dumped the remains behind a restaurant, the prosecutor said. His remains have never been found.

A month later, Asher confessed to police following a two-hour interrogation, and that confession forms the basis for much of the state's case. But the interview was not taped, Page said, and the investigators bullied her into saying things that conformed to their theory of what happened.

"Michael Lord was never at Barbara Asher's place in July 2000," the defense lawyer said, "and certainly she didn't decide to chop up a body in a bathtub."

Forensic testing of the tub and Asher's car turned up none of Lord's DNA, Page said, nor did they reveal the presence of bleach or any other cleaning agent.

She said investigators failed to follow through on possible leads in the case, including that Lord had a 20-year affair with a married woman.

"That woman's husband had threatened to kill Michael Lord," Page said.

She asked the judge earlier Tuesday to dismiss the charges, saying the state hasn't established that a crime was committed. Judge Charles M. Grabau denied the request.

In addition to the criminal charges, Asher faces a $1 million wrongful death suit filed by Lord's family.

Lord's son, Nathan, was the first prosecution witness. He said he only learned of his father's penchant for sado-masochism weeks after his disappearance, when he and his brother visited Lord's trailer in North Hampton with police to search for clues. They found leather bondage devices and contact numbers and e-mails for escorts and dominatrixes.

Nathan Lord acknowledged on cross-examination by Page that he also learned his father had an Internet business where he sold wooden paddles in bulk to others interested in sado-masochism.

North Hampton Police Chief Brian P. Page testified that three officers reviewed Lord's home computer a couple of weeks after he was reported missing. He acknowledged under cross examination by attorney Page that they did not check such things as the Web sites Lord visited, his e-mail address book, his America Online account, or the computer's trash folder.

"Do you agree that all of that could have been potentially important information in locating a missing person?" Stephanie Page asked.


Dominatrix Trial Under Way

Woman Charged In Client's Death

TheBostonChannel.com

January 17, 2006

DEDHAM, Mass. -- Opening statements began Tuesday in the case of a Quincy dominatrix charged in the July 2000 death of one of her clients.

NewsCenter 5's David Boeri reported that Barbara Asher is charged with manslaughter and dismemberment in the death of her client Mike Lord, of North Hampton, N.H. Lord's body was never found, but officials said that he died of a heart attack while restrained in the defendant's so-called dungeon as a paying client.

Asher pleaded not guilty to the charges, but prosecutors alleged that Asher told police what happened to Lord during a taped interview in August 2000.

"At some point in time, when we get toward the end of the two-hour period of time on the tape, Barbara Asher asks the detectives to turn the tape off. Then she took up a discussion with the police about what took place regarding Michael Lord," prosecutor Robert Nelson said.

It was while the tape was off that, police said, Asher told officials that Lord died while suspended by his wrists during a bondage session. Officials said that Asher did nothing to assist Lord, and instead of calling 911, she allegedly called a friend, with whom she disposed of Lord's body.

Nelson told the jury that some evidence corroborates parts of Asher's alleged confession, but the defense argued that there is no evidence to prove the alleged crime.

"There must be some evidence besides the confession that a criminal act was committed by someone, that (the) crime was real and not imaginative. Most cases have a body. If (cases) do not have a body, they have blood. They have tissue," defense attorney Stephanie Page said. "They have some scintilla of evidence that a crime has been committed."

Page asked judge Charles M. Grabau to dismiss the charges, but he denied the request.


Dominatrix Manslaughter Trial Begins

FoxNews.com

January 17, 2006

A prosecutor said Tuesday that a dominatrix waited too long to call for help as a client died of a heart attack during a bondage session, then dismembered and disposed of the body rather than report the death.

But the woman's lawyer said in her opening statement that the man never visited Barbara Asher's makeshift dungeon and that police made up the story and bullied Asher into confessing.

"No body, no blood, no DNA evidence," defense attorney Stephanie Page said. "Barbara Asher is here because of a theory."

Asher, who went by the name Mistress Lauren M, has pleaded innocent to charges of manslaughter and dismemberment in the death of Michael Lord. The retired telephone company worker from North Hampton, N.H., died in July 2000 while strapped to a rack in Asher's Quincy condominium, according to police.

Prosecutor Robert Nelson said Asher was getting into her dominatrix outfit when she heard a commotion coming from the "dungeon" where Lord was waiting, naked, tied by his wrists to the rack, a replica of a medieval torture device.

She entered the room to find Lord in his death throes, Nelson said.

"His arms are flailing about," Nelson said. "There was a gasp, and his head went forward."

Asher waited five minutes before calling her boyfriend to come help, the prosecutor said. Miguel Ferrer, who is charged as an accomplice, arrived 10 minutes later.

"During that time, Mr. Lord continued to hang there, and she did nothing," Nelson said.

Asher and Ferrer took Lord down from the rack and tied to revive him, but by then it was too late, Nelson said. Ferrer suggested they call for help, but Asher refused because she was worried the police would find out about her operation, according to the prosecutor. So they put the body in the bathtub and left for the night, he said.

The next day, Nelson said, Ferrer dismembered the body of the 280-pound Lord with a hacksaw and they divided his remains into eight trash bags. The day after that, they drove to Augusta, Maine, where they dumped the remains behind a restaurant, the prosecutor said. His remains have never been found.

A month later, Asher confessed to police following a two-hour interrogation, and that confession forms the basis for much of the state's case. But the interview was not taped, Page said, and the investigators bullied her into saying things that conformed to their theory of what happened.

"Michael Lord was never at Barbara Asher's place in July 2000," the defense lawyer said, "and certainly she didn't decide to chop up a body in a bathtub."

Forensic testing of the tub and Asher's car turned up none of Lord's DNA, Page said, nor did they reveal the presence of bleach or any other cleaning agent.

She said investigators failed to follow through on possible leads in the case, including that Lord had a 20-year affair with a married woman.

"That woman's husband had threatened to kill Michael Lord," Page said.

She asked the judge earlier Tuesday to dismiss the charges, saying the state hasn't established that a crime was committed. Judge Charles M. Grabau denied the request.

In addition to the criminal charges, Asher faces a $1 million wrongful death suit filed by Lord's family.

Lord's son, Nathan, was the first prosecution witness. He said he only learned of his father's penchant for sado-masochism weeks after his disappearance, when he and his brother visited Lord's trailer in North Hampton with police to search for clues. They found leather bondage devices and contact numbers and e-mails for escorts and dominatrixes.

 

 

 

 
 
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