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Grossberg and Peterson dated while at
Ramapo High School, growing up in the affluent suburb of
Wyckoff, New Jersey. Amy successfully hid the
pregnancy from her parents, wanting mostly to shield it from
her mother. Grossberg wore baggy clothes and avoided her parents
for the course of the nine months. In September, she enrolled as a
freshman at the
University of Delaware, while Peterson enrolled at college in
Gettysburg, Pennsylvania.
In November 1996, the eighteen-year-old's
water broke. Peterson drove three hours from his college to
hers, and checked them into the Comfort Inn in Newark, Delaware.
Grossberg delivered the unnamed child on November 12. Conflicting
stories have made the subsequent events a mystery to anyone except
the couple, but Peterson and Grossberg claim they believed the
infant to be
stillborn, wrapped him in a garbage bag, and disposed of him
in a dumpster.
Investigation
The bloody sheets were discovered by a cleaning woman, who
immediately contacted
police. After returning to school, Grossberg began to have
severe seizures as a result of not having expelled the
placenta. She was taken to a hospital, and it was clear to the
doctors that she had just given birth. Not long after, police
officials and the hospital put the two incidents together.
K-9 Police dogs found the body in the dumpster.
The couple’s initial claim that the child was stillborn was
quickly rejected. An
autopsy indicated that the infant was delivered alive and that
the cause of death was several
head fractures and
Shaken Baby Syndrome. The cause of the injuries was
inconclusive. The D.A. announced that he would charge the couple
with first degree murder and pursue the death penalty against
them. Peterson and Grossberg, who at first seemed to remain a
loving couple, turned on each other and each began blaming the
other. In December 1996 they were
indicted for the murder. Peterson stated emphatically that
Grossberg told him to “get rid of it!”; Grossberg claimed that
Peterson acted alone in putting the boy into the dumpster.
In March 1998, Peterson
pled guilty to
manslaughter in exchange for his
testimony against Grossberg at her
trial. In addition to his initial claims, he stated that he
tried to get Amy to a hospital, but she refused. When Grossberg
heard Peterson's statement in detail, she agreed to a
plea bargain, on April 22, 1998. She admitted to
unintentionally causing the death of the infant and said that she
and Peterson never planned to kill
the baby. A concern of attorneys for both defendants regarding
going to trial was that the pictures of the baby's head would be
displayed in court and lead to more severe penalties. (It was
noted on Court TV that such pictures could not be shown on
television.)
While Peterson was sentenced to two years, Grossberg was held
to be more responsible and was sentenced to two-and-a-half years.
Aftermath
Brian Peterson went on to get married and now lives in Florida.
Amy Grossberg started a high end greeting card business with her
parents.
Media portrayals
These events were depicted in a non-fiction crime book by
journalist
Doug Most, who covered the case for
The Bergen Record of
Hackensack, New Jersey for more than two years. The book was
called Always in Our Hearts: The Story of Amy Grossberg, Brian
Peterson, The Pregnancy they Hid and the Child they Killed.
The book traces the story from their high school days in New
Jersey through the pregnancy and secret delivery in the motel
room, to the court hearings and ultimately the sentencing. Of the
book,
Kirkus Reviews called it a "true crime page turner" and
Booklist said, "Teens will be drawn to this examination of a
horrific crime committed by two bright college students."
Peterson and Grossberg's story was fictionalized by writer
T. Coraghessan Boyle in a story, "The Love of My Life", which
appeared in his collection of short stories, After The Plague.
After learning of the story in the media, Boyle became curious as
to how a couple could commit such an act, and explored their
points of view through a fictionalized account of the case,
changing certain details such as the characters' names and the
gender of the infant.
Law & Order also devoted a story to this case in Season 8,
Episode 2, "Denial." In the episode, the two teens are acquitted.
The Practice and
Homicide: Life on the Street also did episodes based on
this case.
Early From Prison Good Behavior And Program
Participation Were Factors. She Pleaded Guilty To The Manslaughter
Of Her Newborn
By Bill Ordine and Brendan Janury - Philly.com
May 11, 2000
NEW CASTLE, Del. — Amy Grossberg, the onetime
University of Delaware student whose infant son was found dead in
a motel trash bin, was released from prison yesterday after
serving two years of a 30-month sentence for manslaughter.
Officials said she was released early from the
Baylor Women's Correctional Institution for good behavior and
because she had participated in prison education programs.
Grossberg said nothing to reporters when she
left the New Castle prison or when she arrived at her home in a
Bergen County suburb. Her lawyer, Robert Gottlieb, handed
reporters a note handwritten and signed by Grossberg.
Gottlieb declined to answer questions but said
Grossberg planned to continue her education.
Grossberg, 21, of Wykoff, N.J., gave birth to
the baby in a Newark, Del., motel room in November 1996, when she
and boyfriend Brian Peterson were college freshmen. Peterson, now
21, admitted putting the baby in the trash bin, where it was found
dead.
The two said they believed the infant had been
stillborn; medical examinations showed that the baby had suffered
skull fractures.
The story of the two teenagers from
upper-middle-class Wykoff attracted national attention when
prosecutors suggested at first that they would ask for the death
penalty.
During early court appearances, the teenagers
held hands; that closeness faded when defense strategies pitted
the former lovers against each other.
Grossberg and Peterson pleaded guilty to
manslaughter in July 1998. Peterson, who was attending Gettysburg
College when the baby was born, was released from prison in
January after serving 20 months of a 24-month sentence. He
received a shorter sentence than Grossberg because he had agreed
to cooperate with prosecutors.
Grossberg and Peterson no longer see each
other, lawyers have said.
Grossberg must complete a 5 1/2-month parole,
serve two years' probation, and perform 300 hours of community
service in New Jersey.
Beth Welch, a spokeswoman for the Delaware
Department of Correction, said that Grossberg was a model prisoner
and had earned 21 college credits, mostly in computer classes,
while in prison.
"She was behaved, she did not get any
write-ups, she obeyed all the rules and regulations," Welch said.
"She participated in all the programs she was supposed to and took
some others on her own."
Along with the academic courses, Grossberg took
classes in life skills and decision-making and worked as a
janitor, mopping floors and washing windows, Welch said.
When Grossberg arrived at the prison, she was
held in protective isolation, Welch said, because prison officials
worried that the teenager might be the target of other inmates who
would resent the nature of her crime. Once authorities were
convinced Grossberg was not in danger, she was moved into the
general population.
When Peterson was released in January, he also
issued a statement in which he said he was sorry for what he
called his "part in the tragic events that occurred three years
ago."
Death In A Dumpster
TheDailyBeast.com
December 1, 1996
AMY GROSSBERG WENT INTO labor just after midnight. She was in her
freshman dorm room at the University of Delaware, in pain and
terrified. She couldn't go to the hospital. Only 18, she had spent
the last nine months hiding her pregnancy from her well-to-do
parents, perhaps afraid to shatter their suburb- perfect image of
their lovely, artistic daughter. So she called the baby's father,
Brian Peterson Jr., also 18, at his college in Gettysburg, Pa. He
arrived three hours later in his black Toyota Celica, took her to
a nearby Comfort Inn motel and paid $52 for Room 220. What
happened next is equal parts mystery and tragedy.
Police say a healthy baby boy--20 inches long;
6 pounds, 2 ounces--was born toward morning. Brian told the
authorities that he put the child in a plastic bag and deposited
him in the motel Dumpster. The students returned to their
colleges--stopping at a carwash, perhaps to clean up the Celica's
interior--and hoped that their gilded, carefree lives would go on
as if nothing had happened. But something had. The next day,
police say, they found the infant--shaken to death and with his
skull and brain crushed. Amy and Brian were charged with murder.
If they're convicted, the Delaware attorney general says she will
ask for the death penalty.
Such grisly crimes aren't entirely uncommon.
Last week a cleaning woman at a movie theater in New York's Long
Island found an hours-old boy asphyxiated in a toilet. FBI
statistics show that 207 children younger than a week were
murdered in 1994, a 92 percent increase since 1973. There is a
pattern to these deaths. The parents are usually young and poor;
the mother frequently acts alone. But Grossberg and Peterson don't
fit the profile, which is one reason their families--and suburban
parents around the country--are so shaken. Both Grossberg and
Peterson come from wealthy, stable homes. Friends describe them as
""good'' kids. They had access to abortion clinics, adoption
agencies and counseling to handle an unwanted child. ""They were
two wealthy kids who had so many options in life,'' Constantine
Maroulis, a Grossberg family friend, told NEWSWEEK. Seeking out an
abortion, or putting the baby up for adoption, perhaps seemed too
risky to the teens: their families could somehow find out. The
fear that this child would cost Grossberg and Peterson their
privileged lives--and disappoint the people who had made their
comfortable worlds possible--may have led the too-young parents
into a spiral of fatal decisions.
They met at Ramapo Regional High School in
Franklin Lakes, N.J., an affluent suburb of golf courses and
million-dollar houses 20 miles northwest of New York City. Theirs
was a classic teenage courtship--the proms, the glowing yearbook
photos--in a town where everything was above average. She excelled
at art and French. He was a jock: captain of the golf team,
cocaptain of the soccer squad. Both kids grew up in new-money
suburban manses and drove their own cars (hers was a white
Cherokee). Grossberg's father owns a large furniture business; her
mother is an interior designer. Peterson's mother and stepfather
run a successful video-rental business. Walking the halls at
Ramapo, the popular couple seemed an ideal match. ""It was
probably about as serious as a teenage relationship gets,'' Amy
Lucibello, who worked for a summer with Grossberg at the Market
Basket gourmet-food store, told NEWSWEEK.
When they left for college late last summer,
Grossberg was six months pregnant. Peterson made the three-hour
trip from Gettysburg College to Delaware every other weekend; she
visited him once. Though Grossberg--who is just over five feet
tall and wears size-1 pants--somehow managed to hide her pregnancy
from friends and family at home, she made no secret of her
condition at school. ""She wore tight shirts--she didn't hide
it,'' says Seth Chorba, 18, who lived on the same floor of
Thompson Hall as Grossberg. ""Nobody approached her because we
kind of respected her privacy.'' Students who met them at both
schools say Grossberg and Peterson seemed perfectly well adjusted.
There are no reports of missed classes or other signs of stress.
The only potential trouble came when Grossberg's mother, Sonye,
said she planned to go to Delaware for homecoming last month. Her
daughter told her she'd be away visiting friends. Perhaps Amy--in
her eighth month of pregnancy--couldn't face her.
When her water broke in her dorm at about 12:45
a.m. on Nov. 12, Grossberg apparently wasn't sure what was
happening. According to police reports, she called Peterson and
said ""her stomach was bothering her and she might be in labor.''
After he picked her up, they drove past several cheap motels along
the highway before deciding on the Comfort Inn. They checked in at
3:10 a.m. About an hour later, Grossberg gave birth. Around 5
a.m., they checked out and returned to her dorm room, where the
couple slept for a few hours before Peterson drove back to
Gettysburg. The only evidence left of their ordeal lay wrapped in
a gray plastic bag in the Dumpster behind the motel.
They almost got away with it. Grossberg's dormmates didn't notice
anything about her demeanor or body that indicated she had given
birth. ""There was really no change. It was the same Amy,'' Chorba
says. But later that day, at about 5 p.m., Grossberg began to
complain of stomach pain and slumped to the floor of her dorm. She
had turned very pale and blood was seeping into her pants. Her
roommate went running down the hall for help. Someone called an
ambulance. When Grossberg arrived at Christiana Hospital in
Wilmington, doctors discovered that the baby's placenta had not
passed through her uterus during delivery, which caused
complications. She finally broke down and told doctors about the
motel birth--and her boyfriend's role in disposing of the baby.
Police in Delaware and Pennsylvania began to investigate. They
found damp and bloody sheets, clothes and sanitary napkins in
Amy's room.
By then, Peterson had also begun to snap. Just hours after
returning to his Gettysburg campus, he confided to a
student-residence counselor that he had helped his girlfriend give
birth and they had ""gotten rid'' of the child, according to
police. Investigators found a bag of bloody sheets in his dorm as
well. In his car was a receipt from the White Glove Car Wash
stamped with the time 11:28 a.m., about seven hours after the baby
was born. Pennsylvania officials held Peterson on misdemeanor
charges of concealing the death of a baby, but they were forced to
release him because the alleged crime occurred in another state
and they had no evidence to hold him. Peterson promptly
disappeared.
Meanwhile, police in Delaware had discovered the baby's corpse. An
autopsy completed a few days later showed that he had died of
""multiple skull fractures, with injury to the brain, blunt-force
head trauma and shaking,'' according to the official report. As
she was released after five days in the hospital, police arrested
Grossberg--looking pale and eerie in a hooded sweat shirt--and
charged her with first-degree murder. The Delaware attorney
general, M. Jane Brady, announced that because the victim was
younger than 14, the state planned to seek the death penalty
against both teens.
Facing the prospect of death, Peterson went deeper into hiding. A
national manhunt, headed by the FBI, mobilized the media. While
the New York tabloids screamed HOW COULD THEY?, friends and
neighbors defended the couple. ""She was the sweetest girl you
ever met. It's like Barbie getting busted,'' Maroulis said.
Peterson's lawyer, Joseph Hurley, tried to soften his client's
baby-killer image in the face of a potential death sentence by
announcing that Peterson wasn't fleeing; he was in seclusion with
his mother, Barbara Zuchowski. True, the family had considered
secreting him to a country without an extradition treaty with the
United States. ""How can I give my only born child to the state to
die?'' Hurley reported Zuchowski as saying. But with the Feds
threatening to step up their search, Peterson's family realized he
would have to turn himself in.
The night before surrendering, Peterson and his family moved to an
undisclosed hotel in the Wilmington area. The young fugitive spent
the evening praying, Hurley said. At 9:30 a.m. Thursday, Hurley,
Peterson and his parents drove from the hotel to a Wilmington
street corner two blocks from the local FBI office. The blue-eyed
teen wore a baseball cap, blue jeans, T shirt--the antithesis of a
rich boy's jacket and tie. Worried about death threats, Peterson
also sported a bulletproof vest, a loan from the FBI. As the
family moved slowly through a mass of about 50 pushing, shouting
reporters, Peterson's mother clung tightly to his arm. She sobbed
as someone yelled, ""Baby killer!'' As they arrived at the
courthouse, she wailed, ""I want to go with him!'' Inside,
Peterson said just one word--""yes''--as the judge asked him to
confirm his name. When asked how his client would plead, Hurley
responded just as Grossberg's lawyer did: ""We take the position
that he did not murder.''
But the defense is not taking any chances. The teens' lawyers have
hired Dr. Michael Baden, a well-known forensic pathologist who
testified for O. J. Simpson at his murder trial, to work as a
consultant. One possible argument is that, rather than beating the
baby to death, the scared young parents accidentally crushed his
skull while trying to deliver their own child. That could still
get a manslaughter conviction, but it avoids the death penalty.
With a grand jury expected to convene this week, lawyers for both
sides say they're still formulating strategy. They haven't decided
whether they will seek separate trials, though Hurley started to
point the finger at Grossberg last week. ""I think her concerns
are the major thing that led them to where they ended up,'' he
said. ""She was totally concerned with not letting Mom find out.''
Both sides will no doubt try to appeal to the jury's sympathies.
Were these rich kids who callously killed so they could continue
to lead worry-free, country-club lives? Or can their lawyers put
their youth and upbringing in a perspective that will explain what
they did? ""Time after time we see teenagers who don't fully
understand the consequences,'' says James Fox, a juvenile-crime
expert at Northeastern University. ""They understand cognitively
that murder is wrong. But emotionally, they're immature.''
John Daley, 20, a childhood friend of Peterson's, says, ""There's
a lot of pressure in a neighborhood like that, especially with the
girls, to be the perfect princess. She must have built up in her
mind how terrible it would be if her mother found out, how
everybody would look down at her. Image is everything.'' Now
Grossberg and Peterson must confront something far more terrifying
than humiliation: the pros- pect of death row.