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Keith SCAVO
By William Kenny - NortEastTimes.com
Carsello, a lifelong photography enthusiast, had
driven up to northern Bucks County, along the Delaware River, on another
one of his nature-seeking tours. Lamond paged him from their Abington
Township home. It was Valentine's Day.
Carsello started back. When he walked through the
door, Lamond greeted him with a hug, a kiss and a rose.
"She said, 'Happy Valentine's Day,'" Carsello
recalled during an interview last week. "Then she said, 'I have another
Valentine's Day present for you.'"
Lamond instructed Carsello to have a seat.
"She told me, 'Keith Scavo is dead.' I said, 'Yeah,
right,'" Carsello continued.
Carsello asked if Lamond's son, John, a known
prankster, had put his mother up to this jest.
No, he hadn't.
And then a great weight floated from the shoulders of
Carsello and a countless list of family members and friends.
*****
"Naturally, I broke down and started crying,"
Carsello said, "not with grief, but with happiness. I knew deep down,
there was a cloud that was going to be over our heads for a long, long
time. It would be plaguing us."
Lamond knew that her news was best passed along in
person.
"I was afraid to tell him (on the telephone) in a
moving car," she said, "because he'd be hit by all kinds of emotions."
Scavo, 45, was a death-row inmate at the State
Correctional Institution in Greene County, Pa., located in the extreme
southwestern corner of the state.
He died Feb. 10 after a massive heart attack,
according to a prison spokeswoman.
But to the Carsello family, Scavo wasn't just any old
death-row prisoner.
He was the man convicted almost two years ago of the
Palm Sunday, 1997, murders of Robert Carsello's wife, Tamar; her
daughter, Kimberly; and Kimberly's boyfriend, Bill Sauer. The shootings
occurred at Carsello's home on the 600 block of Brill St. in Lawndale.
Kimberly was once married to Scavo. Together, they
had a daughter, Giavanna, who was wounded by Scavo in the shoulder
during the early-evening attack on March 23. She was 3 at the time.
Scavo's homicidal rampage was the final act in a
relationship that had begun to unravel years earlier, shortly after
Gia's 1993 birth, Carsello said. At the time of the murders, Kim and Gia
were living with Carsello in the Brill Street home.
Carsello, 64, believes the pressure of the divorce
and an ongoing custody fight drove Keith Scavo to do what he did. By no
means did it excuse what he did.
Yet, even after his conviction, Scavo continued to
fight Carsello for custody of the girl from his death-row prison cell.
Carsello had temporary custody of the girl.
Ironically, Scavo's heart gave out three days before
a Family Court judge was to award permanent custody to Carsello. The
hearing went on anyway on Feb. 13.
Not a word was spoken of Scavo's death. Carsello
certainly didn't know about it. As far as he could tell, no one else in
the courtroom knew, either.
"The bottom line here is, I'm in court on the
thirteenth, wasting time and money, and he's dead on the tenth,"
Carsello said. "Why was I never informed of this? Why wasn't everybody
notified, including the judge?"
Carsello has learned a lot about the legal system
through his family's ordeal, some of it good, much of it bad.
He applauds the way the prosecutor in Scavo's case,
Assistant District Attorney Arlene Fisk, worked long and hard to win
three first-degree murder convictions. Yet, he says, the courts seem to
advocate more for defendants' rights than victims' rights.
Carsello was the star witness in the Scavo trial. He
was the only adult in the Brill Street home to make it out alive. He
escaped through a rear door to seek help for his fallen loved ones.
When authorities arrived on the scene, they found
Sauer lying in the front yard. He had been shot point-blank between the
eyes. Tamar Carsello was found inside the house, riddled with four
bullet wounds. Kimberly Scavo also was in the house. She had been shot
three times, including once in the back.
*****
Robert Carsello still gets nightmares from time to
time, something a therapist has helped him control.
"(The therapist's) primary concern is not getting
nightmares (and) not getting bad thoughts in the daytime," Carsello said.
"I was pretty good until the custody (case) came along."
The therapist, Dr. Susan Nessler, also gave him a
lasting bit of advice.
"(She said) you have to have a purpose, (to know)
what you want to go on with in life," Carsello said. "For me, that was
Giavanna.
"I've got her to look forward to. I've got this
little girl. I can't fail. Then Beth came along. Now I have her, too."
The healing process has been a slow and steady one
for Gia, too -- just like her "pop-pop." Carsello and Lamond encourage
the 7-year-old to talk about her harrowing experience and her feelings
as often as she wants.
"Gia is very good about being real honest about how
she feels," Lamond said. "She doesn't bottle things up. It's not healthy
to walk around with things bothering you."
Even when a stranger stops by the house, asking all
kinds of questions about her past, Gia doesn't struggle to produce a
smile and display the self-confidence that has made her an "A" student
at Roslyn Elementary School.
*****
Gia loves her new home. She and Carsello were able to
move away from Brill Street about nine months ago.
"When we first moved here, my pop-pop had a surprise
for me
my own room," Gia said, adding that it was simply a matter of
necessity.
Without a new room, she said, "where would I put all
of my toys?"
Gia doesn't always remember the details of the
murders. According to the testimony of others at the trial, she was
visiting with Scavo most of the day at the South Jersey home of his
cousin. When the day ended, Scavo drove to the Brill Street home as if
to return the girl to her mother.
According to eyewitness accounts, Kim walked to the
curb to greet the girl as she left Scavo's van. Words were exchanged
between the adults. Sauer interceded while the mother and daughter went
inside the house.
Then the shooting began.
After the gunfire had settled, Scavo took the
bleeding girl and drove back to New Jersey, dumping the murder weapon (his
.40-caliber Glock semiautomatic pistol) in the Schuylkill River along
the way.
Scavo was arrested by New Jersey authorities after
taking the girl to a hospital there for treatment of her wound.
Gia remembers little of those events, but her face
brightens when asked about her mother and Sauer, the man whom she has
come to refer to as "daddy."
"She would serve me whatever kind of dinner I wanted,"
the girl said of her mother. "She would let me be a maniac whenever I
wanted."
Gia gets to do a lot of things nowadays, too. In
addition to school, she attends Confraternity of Christian Doctrine
(CCD) classes. Her "mom-mom" (Lamond) is the teacher. Gia is also a
Brownie. Lamond hopes to enroll her in dance classes.
"I think kids need some music in their lives, some
dancing," Lamond said.
*****
Lamond has made the same kind of impact on Carsello,
bringing life and energy to a man to whom companionship is of utmost
importance.
"I don't like to be alone," Carsello said. "I'm a
family-type guy."
The couple met in Dorothy's Hair Salon on Rising Sun
Avenue. She was a client, he was a stylist. Carsello continues to work
there a couple of days a week.
Like Carsello, Lamond knows of family tragedy -- both
professionally and personally. She spent more than 20 years as a
visiting psychiatric nurse, helping folks in some of the city's worst
neighborhoods.
Also like Carsello, she was once married. Her husband,
Jack, passed away when he was 34, leaving her with four children, ages 7
to 12. The kids are grown now and have given her eight grandchildren,
who have already become a big part of Gia's life.
"We grew up as a team," Lamond said, referring to her
own kids. "We're a real tight-knit family. We're a handful when we're
together. We have celebrations whenever we can."
Even with her enhanced understanding of Carsello's
past, she knew that making their relationship healthy would require some
effort.
"It's tough to relate to this whole thing," Lamond
said. "I said (to myself), 'How am I going to get a handle on this.'
What I decided to do is try to get (us) to not bury things. Just because
it's over doesn't mean it never happened.
"Men have a tendency to go into 'shutdown' mode. For
something like this, it's a lifetime of healing."